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Per-contact tasks (6): memory document, storylines, open loops, reconnect drafts, "the Read" line, self-mirror narrative.
Portfolio tasks (3): voice fingerprint, fingerprint narrative ("Read:" line on Insights), cross-friend patterns.
Per-message tasks (3): auto-bucket relationship type for new contacts, auto-close detection for open loops, disclosure tagging (substantive / logistic / banter).

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Welcome, installation, pairing, your first scan, and the 5-tier system.

Daily, People, Contact detail, Insights, and Settings — every surface explained.

What the Mac app does, why it's required, and how it stays out of your way.

How the AI works, what each feature does, and how to correct it when it's wrong.

What stays on your device, what's encrypted, and the third parties we disclose.

Why tend asks for Full Disk Access, Contacts, and Notifications — and how to revoke them.

What's calibrated, what's still learning, and how to tell us when something's wrong.